Between 18 and 29, a woman is like Africa.
Half discovered, half wild, fertile and naturally beautiful!
Between 30 and 40, a woman is like Europe.
Well developed and open to trade, especially for someone of real
value.
Between 41 and 49, a woman is like Spain.
Very hot, relaxed and convinced of her own beauty.
Between 50 and 54, a woman is like Greece.
Gently aging but still a warm and desirable place to visit.
Between 55 and 59, a woman is like Great Britain.
With a glorious and all conquering past.
Between 60 and 70, a woman is like Israel.
She has been through war, doesn't make the same mistakes twice,
takes care of business.
After 70, she becomes Tibet.
Wildly beautiful, with a mysterious past and the wisdom of the
ages.....an adventurous spirit and a thirst for spiritual knowledge.
THE GEOGRAPHY OF A MAN
Between 1 and 80, a man is like Iran, ruled by nuts.
Hmmmm just curious what goes through a guys mind , why he would deside to show back up after at least 6 months vanishing act... There one day and gone the next.
why would he think he can just call up one day and be back to normal talking and all. Does he really think it's that easy to just walk back into your life? that you will just be like hey nice to see you I missed you and glad your back..
Come on men whats with that? why so interested now in whats going on in my life ? you didn't care enough at the time to stick around so why bother now?
I don't think I will ever understand the thinking of a man, hell I don't think I really want to. lol
they miss you chasing them. They miss knowing you want them. It's their egos. It's their flaw. Because as much as they want us to want them, they are just pushing us away with the hurt. Especially when they can't hide the other women in their lives well enough.
I think he was trying to feel his way to see if theres a chance of trying again... guess whatever he had going before wasn't working.. sorry charlie nice try .
my thought is for 3 reasons: 1. hes coming back because no one else wants him. 2. he's confused as to why u havent asked him back by now. 3. least likely but could happen, gives the excuse "i didnt know what i had until it was gone" either way if they really wanted u, they wouldnt have left in the first place:)
and using "u" is in general terms(not personally). i have had that happen to me several times...im done with it...u get one shot with me buddy so dont mess it up...lol
I am so tired of being the nice girl the good girl, always doing whats right and best for whom ever I'm seeing or for everyone else.. It seems no matter how much or how hard I try I just get shit on.
Makes me wonder why I even try any more. Why I go out of my way to be good to the guys I date or the one that is in my life at the time. They don't appreciate it at all and in return you get put on the back burner or better yet they just vanish into thin air.
Maybe it's time I just start thinking about myself and start being a bitch and being difficult as the girls they say hurt them that seems to work for some reason because they usually end up running back to them or getting into a relationship with a bitchy high maintance girl.
I don't know maybe it's a turn off for a guy to meet a woman who has her life together and can take care of herself and treats her guy with love and gives him affection who won't fuck around on him and wants him to know how special he is to her and how much she appreciates him, a woman who knows how to be a good girl and bad girl when the time is right.
I think I've been going about this all wrong I guess I should start treating them like dogs and start being demanding and a high maintance bitch who only thinks of herself. I really don't think it could go any worse than it already is with this dating crap..
People tell me you need to find a good guy to be with well I've met a few good guys and I've met some bad boys to.. all and all they are all the same.
I mean do I have a sign on my forehead that says looking to play games or looking for losers . I think my profile is pretty up front about what I want and what I'm looking for . Oh ya thats right most the men here on mojo can't read they can only see pictures... but still I don't think there's a picture on my forehead that says I'm into games or players..
Your picker is broken. Don't start being an asshole - we reap what we sew. Be a good person, and don't date anyone who isn't also a good person. Take the time to find out if they are a good person before you let them into your life (and bed). Be careful with yourself.
My picker is def broken. They seem like good guys and say they want to get to know you than they just vanish never to be heard from again.. So there not making it into my life .
I definitly know how you feel, I've been used and abused by 2 men and been hurt. Some guys will say or do anything to get a woman. It's hard trying to find a guy that won't treat you like crap.
You definitely make a good point.. But not only is your "picker" broken.. so are them men you've been seeing apparently, My picker is broken too.. don't feel bad.. something to do with chemistry maybe.. well anyways.. Maybe we can get together with our broken pickers and figure this out.. or maybe even like each other.. I'm tired of being burned too.
well ya of course they do, but if there only sticking around for those than I'm not interested ... dang I like them to but not sticking with someone only cause there good in bed.
did you ever find out where you can get your picker fixed mine been messed up for years. you know keep ur head up there is someone out there for you. some guys do appreciate the things you do I would. ;)
nattums is right. Treat others the way you want to be treated an eventually you will find the one that is worth your time.
Those that play the game will only wind up losing. Just don't do private dates (date in public for awhile and avoid being alone with them), don't believe everything you hear, and call me when you're not sure LOL
G... You know your my backbone and a great friend. Love ya girl..:)
Marty Barnett #319935
sun dec 27 2009
at 11:06 pm
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It ain't just the guys that fuck around. I feel your pain! The best you can do is cut it off and move on. I know it doesn't seem like it but there are still some decent people out there. let me know if you find any though.
Ok so I was seeing this guy for a while this summer and called it quites because I found out he was seeing someone else at the same time and we had agreed not to.. well since we have been split up I have learned about two others off of mojo who he was seeing at the same time. I'm wondering how many more are out there that he was fucking with. it makes me sick to my stomach to think about it.. He was pretty good and smooth I believed what he told me and I was hooked. so lets see so far there was a total of 5 of us so far that I have found out about . wow talk about getting around. now that is what you call a man whore. Why do people insist on playing games like that? is it a big ego trip to see how many you can string along at once? I guess I'll never know why but I'm to the point that I don't care now I am numb about it all. Guess you can say I have learned a big lesson with this guy. YOu just don't trust anyone until they have earned it and proved there trust worthy...
